There’s always a confluence of factors involved when someone does not understand that being openminded (or accepting) is not necessarily the solution to displaying (or simply having) intelligence/smartness. (It’s smart to understand and deduce the facts properly — it’s not the same as simply accepting everything.) In fact, triggered responses are somewhat normal based on our emotional makeup, and it’s likely to always stay this way … unfortunately. “What does this mean?” you ask. Well, it simply means that we’re all irrational and sentient/conscious; however, it doesn’t mean that it’s only the “triggered” people who act like fools. (When someone becomes insulted by them taking offense to something, it can also display character, etcetera.) Of course, it’s always best to cull our negative emotions, but triggered people are simply reacting to negative stimulus from someone else. (Triggering people is not the answer!) With this in mind, these are the 10 worst triggers that serve very little purpose.
You become triggered by a trigger because of it being triggering.
The 10 Worst Triggers
1. Insults
One of the worst parts about being triggered is knowing that someone else is getting the best of you. (It’s a little more complicated and/or complex than this, but you should get the idea.) Now, if a person is insulting you, then they’re likely making you the target of their personalized rebuke and/or censure. (It’s also important to know that they are likely hurt, too.) Although it’s offensive, it’s not something that we should react to, right? However, it’s not as simple as that, as there are plenty of ways to react (positively/negatively) to this. Not everything is an insult, but we may be triggered, which makes it obvious that being triggered is always bad. Now, if we want to teach someone else a lesson, then being triggered may come in handy, and some things simply make sense. Although, at least for most of the time, how you react to your emotions is vital to controlling them. And, thankfully, it also explains the process of visceral emotion; this is the part of you that you should not partake in if you’re doing the best.
The 10 Worst Triggers
2. Disrespect (Abuse)
When you or someone else is triggered or explaining something, it’s always kind (or nice) to set the ground rules of engagement, exclamation, and so on. Furthermore, it’s also the same for what you respect and/or disrespect during a conversation or interpersonal interaction. *There’s no winning!* In fact, not everyone is going to know your boundaries, and not everyone is going to have a sense of humor. (There will be people who will almost choose to be insulted anyway.) Someone can even be hurt, and they may even take what you say the wrong way. In the end, it all boils down to respect, and it’s often synonymous with someone taking something as an insult. You see, on one hand, what you said is simply something that upset another person, in spite of meaning or intention. On the other hand, your intentions do make a difference, and showing reverence is not always simple or possible. You can be “insulting”; however, the meaning of an insult can also CHANGE depending on who you’re speaking with.
The 10 Worst Triggers
3. Misinformation
When push comes to shove, you’re likely to run into problems if you’re disrespecting/insulting someone. However, some people have thicker skin than others, and this can obviously change the tide of a conversation. (Among friends, this may not be the case; some people enjoy the comradery.) Just be aware that there are consequences no matter what, and spreading LIES or misinformation can create this “surreptitious” rift as well. Of course, we’re all flaming hypocrites to some degree, but this doesn’t mean that we cannot fix a problem (or change) to some degree! (Other people’s reactions may be a sign of disrespect, too.) At times, we may even get upset with ourselves, or get upset when someone else is doing the same thing. “To whom does this concern?” you ask. Well, it concerns us all, as we’re all responsible for lies and misinformation. Does it mean that we deserve negative repercussions? No, but it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t change or deal with the consequences through some kind of betterment.
The 10 Worst Triggers
4. Beliefs
Other than lying to others, you can also lie to yourself (and others). (There a plenty of reasons to be triggered!) Depending on if you’re personally dealing with a lie or viewing (being the victim of) misinformation, you can likely find all sorts of reasons to dislike what other people are motivated by. Of course, when you are deceptive to someone, it may end up displaying someone’s lack of trust in you; however, it also dictates that others cannot believe you for the long-run. (People do not like being duped for a plethora of reasons, and it happens to be the case most of the time!) However, a lie or belief can often be FOR THE BEST, at least according to the person doing it. And if you do not believe what someone else believes, then you may be in for a wild ride. For example: You may be an atheist, but someone else finds this insulting because of personal experience! And, everyone being driven by brain chemistry, this ends up creating a defensive boundary around a person, especially if they’re very religious.
The 10 Worst Triggers
5. Abuse and/or Trolling
If there’s one thing that most people do not like, then the answer is obviously abuse, be it interpersonal (domestic) or ubiquitous (worldwide). Why? Well, it boils down to people not enjoying the flagrant disrespect that abuse always entails. (Abuse works on a micro and macrocosm level, and it’s almost always infuriating.) Unfortunately, it doesn’t end there, as abusive tactics are often subtle and synonymous with physical and/or emotional harm; it’s highly triggering to most people. It can also happen to someone you love, which makes the idea of it that more obnoxious and painful. Of course, we can simply put up with the abuse, or we can assuredly quell it. (Words are just as bad as the epitomal whips.) Although, it’s never good to overreact to it — the emotional pain — with too much displeasure, as it can create a cycle — it’s the same as revenge. With this in mind, it’s always good to find a feasible solution out of the gutter instead of placating the negativity with more on both sides, but it’s never easy.
The 10 Worst Triggers
6. Hypocrisy
As I’ve mentioned before, when someone gives themselves (or others) a pass in spite of throwing the show at someone else, they’re likely a stupid, flaming hypocrite. (Hypocrisy [double standards] is and should be expected to some degree; however, its possibility does not make it acceptable.) And, as we all should know, hypocrisy instills the idea that creating double standards (deceit) — for themselves or others — is acceptable. Now, it’s not to say that it’s all bad, as just about everyone does it to some degree. Furthermore, there’s not something obstructing people from partaking in this act, and it’s also a simple matter of taste. It also depends on what you do and how bad the side effects are because of your actions. Regardless, at least on principle, there’s no reason to be a hypocrite, but it’s obviously not that simple all of the time. And as long as you’re willing to accept your wrongdoing, you’re likely to improve and gain the respect of others. People love to get away with things, but this doesn’t mean that they should. In fact, it’s glibness at its absolute finest!
The 10 Worst Triggers
7. Destruction
If you’re one to go bonkers, then you’re likely to cause a lot of misery and resentment for other people. Just be aware of the fact that among the worst things that you can do is break or destroy the belongings of someone else. Of course, even if it’s something small, this can be displayed as a sign of a lack of control or disrespect. (Some acts are more actively [or openly] malicious than others.) And even though others can or may understand this rage, they may still find reasons to be triggered towards you. Unfortunately, most people do not understand anger, hate, or self-sabotage, which makes the process worse for just about everyone. Yes, it’s understandable, but it’s better to nip a problem in the bud as soon as possible. (Why let it go on, right?) It doesn’t matter who is to blame, as the pain created by situations should be resolved as peacefully as possible. Of course, this never actually happens, but it’s ideal if we’re to understand the bigger picture. (We should then understand the “victim” and their plight/position, too!)
The 10 Worst Triggers
8. Theft/Betrayal
It doesn’t matter if you’re hijacking a car or hacking someone’s profile on social media! If you’re stealing something from someone, then that “person” who you’re stealing from will likely have been very triggered by it. Of course, it doesn’t matter if you’re a corporation or a small-time crook, you’re going to be the problem — you’re a thief or petty crook. However, the lines of who’s to blame become blurred when multiple people are involved. Why? Well, a person may ask, “Who’s to blame, and what can I do about it?” However, there’s never a good answer except for blaming everyone involved; they’re all to blame. You may not know who did this heinous act against you or someone you care about, but it’s still a sign that you’re dealing with some kind of asshole. After all, triggering is at the very least some kind of frustration, irritation, or rage! Triggers then create even more triggers (or reflexive hormonal reactions); it sucks. This then leads to a monkey fight and competition about who is better at casting lousy aspersions.
The 10 Worst Triggers
9. Emotion – Unfairness
Be it anger or excitement, your feelings can create a rift between you and other people. And although misery loves company, there are a lot of people who cannot put up with someone who is happy. However, there are also people who can not stand simple folk with a chip on their shoulder. (It can boil down to pettiness; however, it can also be a bad case of acting accordingly.) To whom it may concern, this shouldn’t be a problem, but it always has been. It’s also understandable when someone reacts to someone else’s emotions in a form of ‘mirroring.’ Thankfully, it doesn’t necessarily create an unnecessary rift if people are mimicking each other. However, if you’re not doing this and you’re somewhat “narcissistic” or arrogant, then you’re likely the culprit. We can obviously credit or discredit others as much as we want, but the truth remains the same. We’re all guided by an assortment of the same emotions: anger, sadness, and “happiness.” So, it’s not really a threat when someone else reacts similarly to you … at times.
The 10 Worst Triggers
10. The Specifics
We can obviously break this list down to more specific instances, but that would make this more of a tabloid piece. (Who needs anecdotal news when you can teach people an understand through generalized circumstances.) Of course, we can also understand how the betrayal of your friend will upset you more than a store clerk ripping you off. And in spite of this, triggering often has a negative connotation that’s unfounded. If you’re triggered, it means that you’ve overreacted; however, it’s never that simple. There’s also something specific that can upset you, but it doesn’t always have to be something obvious. In fact, subtlety is often used to avoid this or facilitate a trigger. It doesn’t matter the “shituation” or circumstance, and it can even upset a person about themselves. This can range from coping mechanisms, infidelity, and attitude observations. At large, this simply means that people can rub you the wrong way because of their unset personality or your inadequate feelings from self-consciousness.
The 10 Worst Triggers
Ending
As you can see, this crude game is especially rigged against us, and it’s essentially like playing a game of dominoes and dice. You have no control over yourself and others; although, you’re still to blame and punishable. (There’s no control to harness, and our rudimentary triggers are a sign of this.) Unfortunately, you’re simply acting out the script; however, we should still rely on the idea of self-control. (We’re precious commodities that are controlled by crude forces.) And, at least for the best, we should blame others for triggering us. Although, we’re still adding to the (unnecessary) problem that should have never been there to begin with. And just because it’s the only thing we know, it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t do better, especially when others are creating problems. (We’re simply doing things to do more things, but those things are often nothing special.) The flaws are clear, and it means that our crude brain chemicals are not immortal or infallible. It’s just tough luck for us folk that they’re all we’ve got in the end!
Turn the page, or pull the trigger? And we should not forget that success is your biggest failure in a jealous person’s mind. Even if you’re struggling, all it takes is petty resentment to start the train!
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